Is The Law of Attraction A Get Rich Quick Scheme?

Are you setting your intention to get a new CLS Mercedes Benz Sedan?

Are you changing your vibrations to lose weight and get back in shape, but just inhaled a whole bag of chocolate chip cookies? Are you putting out your intentions to get a six-figure income, when you only have a high school diploma? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you have been sucked in to a get rich quick scheme. Only now it should be officially called, get results quick scheme.

So is the law of attraction like most things in America?

Is it only reserved for the rich, famous, and lucky? The answer to that question is both yes and no. Let’s keep it real. There are some people who market the law of attraction like it is a business. These people are obviously sociopaths. So they don’t mind preying on people’s dreams and desires. Just look at the self-publishing industry. People make more money selling books about self-publishing than all self-published books combined. Look at Internet marketing or any multi-level marketing brand or company. People spend more money getting into it, than they will ever get out of it.

So what’s the problem with this picture?

People are investing in a dream. Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with that. But you just can’t have a dream and expect it to come true. There are going to be some things that you will be able to manifest easily. While there are others that will be down right difficult. I know, you’ve heard the stories about how you need determination, action, and positive intentions to get the law of attraction to work. However, I am about to tell you something that you probably didn’t know.

The law of attraction is contingent upon the laws of the collective consciousness.

What does this mean? If your intention is not aligned with this force, you will never be able to attract anything. You will be going against the grain. Or you will be trying to swim away from a giant wave that is just going to over power you. You need to learn how to plug into the collective consciousness and draw energy from this source.

Just think about it.

Everything in our universe is interconnected. Many scientists believe that we are entangled on different levels. I am writing this article, and you are reading it. When your wife is speaking to you. You are listening. When someone hits you. You feel pain. My point is that you are consciously being influenced by other people’s thoughts, behaviors, and actions. You are entangled, so you have to set intentions that are beneficial to everyone.

I am sorry, I didn’t tell you what you wanted to hear.

I guess being compassionate, empathetic, and selfless is something that you never wanted to learn about the law of attraction. Greed is not part of the formula. Neither is instant gratification. You cannot take more from the collective source than you put in. So don’t expect to get any free handouts. You need to work with the laws of the collective consciousness. And do things that are going to be beneficial for humankind. Not just your pocket. Greed and trickery was never part of the law of attraction’s formula. If you truly believe that, you have been a victim of a get rich quick scheme.

I’ve written hundreds of articles on self-development, spirituality, inspiration, and relationships. So if you are looking for more information about the law of attraction, I suggest you purchase The Science of getting rich by Bob Proctor. Also, feel free to contact me at www.alternativevibrations.com for additional tips, coaching and guidance.

7 Habits of Highly Dysfunctional People & Manifestation

7 Habits of Highly Dysfunctional People & Manifestation

Most people come from dysfunctional families. We’ve read the news and have seen all the people who come up with sob stories. I suppose that they want us to throw up the confetti, cut the cake and engage in one big pity party. I don’t buy it for a second. We are all dysfunctional in one way, shape, or form. After all, we are human. We can’t blame our parents or the bully that took our lunch money. The only thing that we can do is identify our issues and come up with viable solutions on how to fix them.

Habit number One

You complain and criticize from the sidelines. Okay, I get it. You are a major football fan. You are going to paint your bare belly and flabby arms and cheer on your favorite team in below freezing weather. But there is one thing that you need to understand. You cannot criticize anyone if you’re sitting on the sidelines.

Habit Number Two

You don’t want to get into the game. There is no strategy without experience or execution. You need to step into the ring to understand how badly those punches hurt. You need to experience how fast that baseball is flying. You need to know that it hurts like hell to be tackled and pummeled to the ground.

Habit Number Three

You don’t know how to think on your feet. When a 300-pound man is punching you in a face, everything changes. Your vision will become clouded and your planning and strategy will be overtaken by pain. You go into reaction mode. However, you can’t plan your reaction. You can only condition your behaviors. Some of the best generals in the world know how to utilize this tactic.

Habit Number Four

You quit before the real work actually begins. I know that you’ve seen the movie “The Secret” and they talk about the magic genie that pops up and tells you that your wish is my command. Is it a fairytale? Yes and no. The one thing that I’ve learned about the law of attraction is that I cannot attract anything into my life, when there are lessons that need to be learned. I usually need to shift my vibrations so then I am in harmony with thing/things I wish to manifest.

Habit Number Five

You are looking for instant gratification. Despite popular belief, the law of attraction is not about instant gratification. You can’t reap the harvest and plant the seeds at the same time. You have to give the seeds time to grow. You need to plant them in your mind, and then nurture them with positive and loving intentions. Don’t forget, you need to take action and understand that each step will bring you closer to your goals.

Habit Number Six

You take failure as a final answer. You fail the first time and tell yourself, oh well, at least I tried. Well, let me explain something to you. You will fail in life. Okay, you are going to fail a lot. Partly because the bigger the goal, the higher the learning curve. George Lucas almost had a heart attack when making Star Wars. He says that everything went wrong. His staff threatened to quit, he ran out of funding, and he almost died while making one of the best movies of our time.

Habit Number Seven

You use escapism. Can you deal with failure? Can you deal with not having instant gratification? Do you suffer from delusion of grandeur where you believe that you are as holy as Jesus Christ. Do you have an ego that is as big as Kim Kardashian’s ass. Are you a wannabe rock star that is more arrogant than Kanye West? Well guess what? It takes a hell of a lot of money, talent, and luck to be an asshole. These people are assholes because they are effective. They get things done. You’re an asshole because you feel entitled to have things that you didn’t earn. And that is what makes you highly dysfunctional.

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Let Me Tell You Why You Hate Your Bleeping Job

So What’s Really Going On?

You gave up your bleeping freedom to get a job. That’s why you bleeping hate it. You can’t communicate effectively or freely, so you end up with a whole bunch of suppressed desires. You exchange time for money and you have to sacrifice so much of yourself to work. What else are you going to give up? Are you going to give up your worth, your creativity, and your ideas? You are a modern day slave who is no longer forced to work under a burning hot sun. Now, you are tortured with how to manuals, regulations, and guidelines that will ensure that you will never feel alive again. So maybe you’re not picking bundles of cotton or being whipped by a slave master. Now you’re being thrashed by your boss’ pen. Each write-up or note in your file is like a hash tag of whip marks on your back. You hate your bleeping job because you are forced to be subservient, submissive, inferior, and “enslaved” into a life of fear.

You hate your bleeping job because the only sense of reprieve that you get is moving up into the master’s house.

Yes, your once ambitious aspirations have devolved into you being a house slave/middle manager. This is the station where everyone who is imprisoned by the mind aspires to be. In this position, you can really express your desires to be a complete asshole by humiliating your workers and or employees, subjecting them to ridiculous demands and work hours, and keeping them incarcerated and controlled into your own little prison of fear. If they act up, going into solitary confinement is not enough. Instead, they get sold off, forcefully separated from their work family and never to be seen again. You hate your bleeping job because it has turned into a plantation where you are painfully employed. And your dreams of being free are as distant as a chariot descending from the heavens. This does not only apply to a job, it could be a dream business that you are failing miserably in. You know the business that I am talking about? The one that has more secret debt than Enron.

You Hate Your Bleeping Job Because You Enslaved Yourself To It

You are giving your job or business all of your power. You are so focused on the negative. You’re focusing on pleasing your master, your boss, on gossiping with employees, on being tied to this illusionary sense of security, that you’ve forgotten where the power lies. You have forgotten who you are, and you’ve allowed a job to shape you into a person that you never wanted to be. So you live your life in fear of being who you truly are. And this is the worst kind of slavery. Just understand that many institutions will suck you dry. They want you to be part of a machine, so that way you can be easily replaced. This way of thinking makes having a job the most risky endeavor of them all. So the only thing that you can do is focused on being free, on being unique. This way, you’ll always be irreplaceable. And you won’t hate your bleeping job!

I’ve written hundreds of articles on self-development, spirituality, inspiration, and relationships. So if you are looking for more information about how to open up your third eye, I suggest you grab my free e-book, “Setting Intentions.” Also, feel free to contact me at www.alternativevibrations.com for additional tips, coaching and guidance.

How to Stop Negative Thoughts?

I know that you can go and do a Google search online, and you’ll see hundreds if not thousands of articles on how to stop negative thoughts.

I truly believe that there’s nothing that you can do to stop negative thoughts. We need to be interrogated by our minds, so we know that we are making the best possible choices. We need the good cop. These are the strong motivated thoughts that keep us focused and aware. We need the bad cop, the aggressive, self-destructive thoughts, to remind us of risk, weakness, and mistakenly putting ourselves in a position that we don’t want to be in. The best way to stop negative thoughts is to understand that the good cop and bad cop are both working together to bring about the same results.

Bad cop

Don’t try and resist the bad cop.

These thoughts are incredibly aggressive, negative, and accusatory. The bad cop may make derogatory comments like you’ll never going to get off your fat ass to get to the gym. Or the bad cop may insult you by saying things like. You idiot! Why do you even try to make your life better? No matter what you do, you’ll always end up in a bad situation. Ugh! The bad cop is ugly, but just imagine these bad thoughts turning into a wimpy Drill Sergeant with badges of honor and experience to protect his weak ego.

He is all bark and no bite.

He yells at you through a bullhorn and he always expects you to do things that he cannot do. Don’t resist these thoughts. I repeat, don’t resist these thoughts. Resisting or challenging negative thoughts is like punching a Drill Sergeant or Police Captain in the face. They both come with dire consequences. Fighting against your bad thoughts will just put you behind bars. You will live in a mental prison, and each negative thought will be like additional years added onto your sentence. You will constantly be fighting against three hundred pound inmates named Bubba. And much like his rigorous exercise routine, Bubba is going to incorporate kicking your ass into his daily practice.

Good Cop

So then you have the good cop.

These thoughts are strong and wholesome. These thoughts represent the little cheerleaders on the sidelines of your mind. They nudge you forward with joyful reminders of how good you are. You start to hear their jingles in your mind. You can do it, you can do it, put your mighty body to it. Then, you can start to put your game face on. You can start to put on all of your imaginary gear of happiness, blissfulness, and joy. So when negative thoughts tackle you and pummel you to the ground, you are no longer affected, you are no longer afraid. The good thoughts, the cheerleaders help you become strong and focused. So with each play, you can make it further down the yard-line.

It is the bad cop who motivates us to change.

It is the bad thoughts that make us aware of our pain, of our despair, so we can do something about it. Change is painful. Change is hard because we are moving against inertia. Transitions are hard because we have to break old patterns, old ties, and behaviors. However, once we are able to make the change. We can ride the momentum all the way to the finish line. So good thoughts and bad thoughts both work together to achieve a common goal. And that goal is to see you grow. So don’t suppress your negative thoughts, embrace them and you’ll be amazed how far you can go.

I’ve written hundreds of articles on self-development, spirituality, inspiration, and relationships. So if you are looking for more information about how to open up your third eye, I suggest you grab my free e-book, “Setting Intentions.” Also, feel free to contact me at www.alternativevibrations.com for additional tips, coaching and guidance.

The Law of Attraction and Love

Just rewind back to when you were a child and you used to play with Barbie and Ken dolls. If you were a boy, you probably played with small action figures like He-Man and GI Joe. You put so much imagination into those toys. After all, you needed to bring them to life. Each toy had a story line, plot, and character arc that would put the best writers in Hollywood to shame. Many of us can’t succeed in the law of attraction and love because we’ve lost our sense of imagination. We are no longer pretending to be picture perfect action figure dolls. Now, we are demented characters who are twisted and torn by the plight of our own imaginations.

I believe that the Joker said it best. “Why so serious? Let us carve a smile into that face.” Of course, we don’t want to be as demented and as crazy as the joker. But sadly, many of us are almost there. Alright, so maybe were not murderers or psychopaths, but our behaviors can get really crazy when we don’t properly address our issues. We cover up our unhappiness, our misery, and disappointment with cracked war paint. The paint serves as a reminder of all the battles we’ve fought, lost, and won in past relationships. We can’t move forward and begin to understand the law of attraction and love, until we really begin to understand the pain that we are covering up inside. So many of us wrap a homemade bandage around the wound, so we can keep going. But that’s the wrong answer.

We cannot enter a new relationship when we are badly wounded. In our hearts we want to attract love, but the pain will not allow us to. We may very well manifest men who are handsome and are as perfect as a Ken plastic doll, but may massacre our self-worth and confidence like Leather Face with a chain saw. We might be attracted to women who look like Barbie, but the attraction can turn fatal when the feeling is not reciprocated. Our character plots and story lines can take a turn for the worse, when we are not aligned with who we really are inside. When we approach our lovers and relationships like they’re toys, our imaginations will get the best of us. We will start to tell ourselves that we are not worthy, that they are going to leave us, that they don’t love us. We begin to write our own stories, and the plots changes where we begin to push our partners away.

What’s the solution to all of this? Take control of your imagination. Understand that everything in your life is a reflection of who you are inside. The law of attraction and love is all about becoming a creator. You need to become the creator of your life. So if you truly want to find love, you have to look inside of yourself. As children, we played with dolls. We brought them to life with our own story lines and imaginations. Only, the dolls were just a mere reflection of who we were inside. We were discovering our selves through our imaginations, and we were happy doing so. So hit rewind and think of your childhood, before the wars and relationship battles, before all the wounds and pain, before all of the feelings of uncertainty and unworthiness, and tap into an imagination that brought you so much bliss and happiness. This is the secret to the law of attraction and love.

I’ve written hundreds of articles on self-development, spirituality, inspiration, and relationships. So if you are looking for more information about how to open up your third eye, I suggest you grab my free e-book, “Setting Intentions.” Also, feel free to contact me at www.alternativevibrations.com for additional tips, coaching and guidance.

The Secret of Conscious Living

Are you bored with life? Do you feel like you’re stuck in a rut? Do you feel like there is something more that you should be doing, but you just don’t know what it is? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are not living your life consciously. You have become a slave to your own fear, and that fear is complacency. You can start to change your life by understanding the secret of conscious living. Complacency works against our bodies and soul’s natural desire to grow. We all crave adventure. We all want to be risk takers, because we innately understand that sometimes we need to live on the edge in order to evolve.

Due to the short attention span of many blog readers, I am going to get right to the point. If you want to have more guts and courage, you need to build solid mass. Yes, you need to start to be as buff and as tough as body builder. After all, body builders work hard to keep their bodies’ chiseled and tight. If you don’t want to spend half your waking hours pumping weights in a gym, or drinking high fructose protein shakes that will just give you a lot of gas, that’s okay. Not everyone has the discipline to be as healthy and strong as a body builder. However, you do need to incorporate a work out routine in your schedule. And this workout routine includes flexing the muscle of confidence, will power, and courage. This is the secret of conscious living.

When I talk about courage, I don’t mean running into a burning house and rescuing an elderly lady or a kitten. I am talking about rescuing yourself from a bad marriage or relationship. I am talking about rescuing yourself from a dead end job, or leaving a sleepy town that has one dirt-paved highway. I need you to understand that courage is like a muscle that you have to flex. You have to condition yourself to have courage. And you can only do this when you live and experience life fully. Much like a body builder, you are going to have to strain to lift the extra ten pounds, but you will get stronger, each time you push yourself to go a little further. But with courage comes fear. However, it is important to understand that courage is not the opposite of fear. It is its precursor. This is what the secret of conscious living is all about.

Fear is the most natural thing in the world. However, it works against us when it stops us from being our best selves. People often complain that they are bored. They say that the things that used to excite them no longer gives them happiness or even pleasure. This happens because the things that worked for you one or two years ago are not going to work for you now. So you are going to have to pack on the mass. You are going to have to build your strength by working on your self-confidence and self-worth. Then, you can start to chisel your mental physique into one that takes chances, into one that seeks adventure, into one that craves risks. It may be hard. It may even be painful. However, it will be what your soul needs in order to grow. If you are looking for more information about the secret of living consciously, I suggest you check out the Science of Getting Rich by Bob Proctor. If you loved the secret and believe in the law of attraction, you’ll love his approach on how to gain the necessary courage to change your life. Visit my website and get a free report and video. Change your life and gain the courage to live fearlessly.

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Seven Reasons Why Your Blog is Failing

I’ve lived in the concrete jungle for quite some time now (NYC). And I’ve heard every story in the book. Everyone’s a novelist, writer, actor, or up and coming entrepreneur. Everyone seems to have a side hustle, but they seem to be going nowhere fast. When it comes to business, Rupaul said it right. “You better work.” That doesn’t mean going out and getting platform shoes and squeezing your wide ass into a pair of spanks. It means getting down to business and understanding the real reason why your blog is failing. I’ve listed seven, just to name a few.

1 You are superficial.

You buy Facebook likes and Twitter fans. You fudge your numbers. And you hire an immigrant with English as a second language to write your seven-dollar articles and blog post. Hey! Pimpin aint easy. But if you’re going to pimp out your blog, be sure that you make a little bit of money off of it. Learn from a master. Check out blogging with John Chow to really learn about blogging.

How to make money from blogging
How to make money from blogging

2 You buy every tool and program on the market.

But like a child on Christmas, you realized that playing with the wrappings was more exciting than the actual product.

3 You are always changing shifts

You are always passing the ball, coming up with a better and bigger way to do things before your first idea was set and proven. Come up with one idea and stick with it!

4 You fail to get serious about your work.

You need to stop dabbling and get serious about your work. If you need motivation, just imagine yourself working in some third world sweatshop, with a mean little boss with bad oral hygiene breathing down your neck. Just understand that if your business fails, this is the kind of work environment you may have to go into.

5 You quit after six months.

Okay, it takes a baby a full nine months to be born. Not to mention that the mother is in serious pain for hours while trying to push that bad boy out. So think of your blog like a baby. You need to carry it for at least nine months. Then, you have to go through the pains of giving birth. Then, you have to nurture and raise that child into adulthood. And even then, the damn child is not out of your hair. Treat your business like a baby. Get serious and understand that it is a life long commitment.

6 You don’t commit to mastery.

So many people become complacent. I really can’t stand it when people say that they are going to wait to see what happens. This kind of attitude is like slowing down or completely stopping during a speed race. It will only be a matter of time before your competitors pass you by. You create your life, and when you are reactive and not proactive, you allow others to dominate your business and your profits.

7 You loose steam.

Having your own blog is just like being in a long-term relationship. Once the spice and the romance dies, there will be a lot of days when you’re just not in the mood. This is your time to learn a new trade, to add a new product, to meet new business associates, or to embark on a totally different endeavor. Many blogs fail because they simply refuse to grow.

Do you really want to know the main reason why your blog is failing?

Your blog is failing because you need a mind shift. If you had a dollar for every toxic thought that ran through your head, you would be a millionaire. We are all weighed down with negativity. You will need some positive affirmation to lighten up, shift your mindset and put you into the money-making mood. You can do this with Forgotten Laws. Get rid of all the mental blocks. Tame that wicked little voice in your head who tells you can’t do it. Just start believing that you can. You may never receive one million page views, but at least you can be happy while creating a profitable blog that you love.

I’ve written hundreds of articles on self-development, spirituality, inspiration, and relationships. So if you are looking for more information about how to open up your third eye, I suggest you grab my free e-book, “Setting Intentions.” Also, feel free to contact me at www.alternativevibrations.com for additional tips, coaching and guidance.

How To Make Money From Your Blog Without the Fluff or Nonsense

Unfortunately, in the Western world, everything is good or bad, positive or negative, right or wrong. Despite the capacity, our brains seemed to have limited bandwidth. So we stuff virtually all-incoming information into two little compartments that take up only 10% of the brain. So everything that we feel is wrong, gets filed into the wrong compartment, and everything that we feel is right, gets filed into the right compartment. This is how we approach our relationships, workdays, and even our blogs. But I am here to help you kick this dualistic habit. I want you to understand that there are no concrete principles to blogging. In fact, most techniques or strategies probably fit into the grey category.

Right Category

In fact, many people fail in business or in blogging because they have mixed feelings. Some people feel that commercializing their blog is dirty, evil, and sleazy. They feel like asking for donations is like soliciting a john or turning a trick. This is the wrong mindset. If you are a blogger, you give over 99.9% of your information away for free! People have a choice, they can click on ads, buy your products, leave your website, or enjoy your content. That’s the great thing about the Internet. It gives people choices.

Bad Category

It is not right to take on a massive ego, and to start engaging in marketing practices that are as unethical as Tony Soprano. You don’t need to bomb people’s email inboxes with spam. You don’t need to shove webinars and e-courses down people’s throat. You don’t need to cheat and lie to sell products. All of these things come back to bite you in the ass. Remember, when it comes to blogging, marketing, and branding, an infamous reputation is one that you don’t want to have.

Right Category

Okay, we get it! Content is king. We hear all of the marketers and bloggers beating up our eardrums on how we have to focus on content. However, I can tell you one thing. Content may be king, but it could easily be dethroned by procrastination.

Stop trying to write like Shakespeare. It is literally impossible. Besides, there is only one of him. Also, it puts you under a great deal of stress and pressure. Soon, you’ll be as immobile as an invalid. You will be afraid to write one sentence, out of fear of criticisms or bad feedback. Here is some good advice about good content. Be yourself. Write your blog like you’re talking to your best friend. Take the pressure off and you will begin to see your personality shine through. Just being yourself is all the great content that you need.

Bad Category

A common misconception is that blogging is easy. Getting started with blogging is easy. All you have to do is press a couple of buttons. However, understanding the widgets, plugins, SEO, and themes is quite difficult. It is difficult because being a great marketer is really about strategy. It’s a balancing act between having great content, valuable products, ads, promotions, and sincerity. This is incredibly difficult to do. The best thing to do when you are just getting started is to hire a consultant or mentor, which can be very expensive. Or you can learn from one of the greatest bloggers around, John Chow. He has great programs that will help you jump-start your blog, without the hiccups and missteps that so many new bloggers go through.

Right Category

People feel that they need to blog everyday. This is complete baloney. I am sure that there are a great deal of people who blog everyday, or blog every three days and do very well. And they will reiterate that their secret sauce to success is consistency. But just remember one thing, most bloggers don’t make squat. They write consistently and they don’t have much to show for their efforts. You don’t want to be like them. There is nothing worse than working hard and having nothing to show for it.

Instead, work your ass off for a week. Write ten articles, fifteen articles, start a fresh product, make a few videos, but do it with excitement and zeal. By doing this, you’ll have more passion because the product will be new and fresh. And trust me your passion and enthusiasm will shine through. Besides, it is not about the quantity, but the quality. Then, relax for a couple of days and recharge your batteries. Then start the whole process all over again. Stop stressing out over being disciplined. It is like romance, it never lasts.

Bad Category

Blogging is not cheap. You could spend hours upon hours every week writing articles, getting back links, posting on social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter. Your time is not cheap. Stop doing little meaningless task that a monkey can do. I know what your thinking? You are thinking that you are just starting, and you can’t afford to hire or outsource any of your work. Well can you afford five dollars? You will be amazed what you can get on Fiverr.com. You can have people do jobs for less than minimum wage (omg is that legal?) Let other people do the grunt work. You just need to focus on creating value and letting your personality shine through.

Grey Category

So, I presented you with a brief list of what is right or wrong. If you feel that you need to be a control freak and micromanage every aspect of your blog, then you are wrong. The chances of your blog failing, and you running out of steam are very high. Get it right. Learn from the masters and cut your learning curb in half. Besides, the faster you learn, the easier it will be to make money.

I’ve written hundreds of articles on self-development, spirituality, inspiration, and relationships. So if you are looking for more information about how to open up your third eye, I suggest you grab my free e-book, “Setting Intentions.” Also, feel free to contact me at www.alternativevibrations.com for additional tips, coaching and guidance.

How To Get Your Ex-Back by Looking at the Past, Present, & Future

Breakups are hard. The first thing that you want to do after a break-up is to refrain from being a psycho. Yes it is fun to fantasize about slashing tires, or throwing a drink in your ex boyfriend or girlfriend’s face. But then reality starts to set in, and you realize that you really miss them. You start to text them at all times of the night, you hang out in the places that you think that they might be. You patrol around their work area or home. And you are really just one step away from being arrested as a stalker. If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, you really need to think long and hard about getting your ex-back. So if you’ve made the decision to try and get your ex-back, read on. My proven system will have you back with your ex, spooning, cuddling, and back in love in no time.

The first thing that you need to do is whip out your crystal ball. No, I don’t mean that you have to call a psychic hotline and get screwed by paying twenty dollars a minute. I mean that you need to examine all of the aspects of your relationship.

Look to your past, can you think of anything that you did wrong? Are there some things in the relationship that you’ve could have done differently? Do you think that you can do better now?

Look at your present? Are you still the same person your ex-fell in love with. If not, try and remember that person. Were you happy and joyful, and then all of the sudden got clingy. Did you suddenly become a nag hag, complaining about everything? Did you become heartless and bitter? Did your upbeat bubbly personality morph into one that resembles a psychopath. Remember, you’re not Hitler. And if you said a few things, and did a few things that hurt your ex worse than a Mike Tyson blow. Then, you may need to let off a little steam.

First, get all the negative energy out of you. No you don’t want to go around punching walls or ripping the feathers out of pillows. Instead, focus on the person you would like to be. Write your thoughts down in a journal. Do a brief meditation, take a yoga class, go for a jog or a long walk, all the while imagining yourself blossoming into the person you would like to be. Soon, you’ll find yourself losing weight, and I just don’t mean on the scale. You will lose all of the negative energy that has been weighing you down and causing your relationship not to grow.

Just think, when you finally do see your ex- you are going to be blow them away. And looking damn good I might add. If you truly want to get your ex back, you’re going to have to change the person you are inside. And most importantly, you are going to have to be comfortable with those changes. However, don’t start to mess up by becoming a dummy again. Being a dummy is the reason why you broke up with your ex in the first place. The only thing that you need to do is know yourself, be the best person you can be, and your energy will shine through. To learn more tips, How to get your ex boyfriend back using the Law of attraction.

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Get Your Spiritual Checkup

There is one thing that is an absolute complete turn-off, bad breath. It is even more disgusting when we start to understand why someone’s breath smells bad. When you don’t brush your teeth properly, you are allowing food and left over debris to literally rot in your mouth, resulting in cavities and gum disease. Food gets stuck in the creases of your teeth, and residue starts to build up on your tongue, causing your breath to smell worse than a garbage incinerator. It gets really bad when people start to pop breath mints into their mouth. As if covering up the smell is going to make the problem go away. Sadly, our oral hygiene is much like our spirits, in desperate need of cleaning.

One of my favorite teachers once told me that enlightenment is about getting all the crap that is buried inside of us, out. Yes, it was one of my aha moments. At that time, I realized that virtually every form of illness, every disease, starts on a subtle level. Holistic health practitioners believe that illnesses penetrate us from within our auric fields. By the time a disease gets to the mind and or body, it is already fully grown. Today, in our society it is commonplace for many people to treat the symptoms and not the cause. It is so much easier to just pop in a breath mint.

Many diseases actually come from the external environment. Our auric fields are vibrational bands of energy that surround our body. We have certain layers that act as our “teeth.” These layers actually sort through energy (information) and actually decide what kind of energy we want to take in (from other people and things). They break things down, chewing and molding, processing information, and only swallowing the information most pertinent to the growth and development of spirit. However, things get really “dirty” when we start to interact with people and things that give off negative vibes, or spread negative energy. Our auric fields get overloaded and the energy begins to build like residue. Slowly our fields begin to wane and deteriorate like cavities, allowing negative energy to seep through into the body.

This is why a lot of spiritualists take a more preventative approach on health. They do things like chakra cleansing, or they prescribe certain herbal baths. I’ve written hundreds of articles on self-development, spirituality, inspiration, and relationships. So if you are looking for more information on how to get your spiritual checkup. I suggest you purchase The Science of Getting Rich, by Bob Proctor. Also, feel free to contact me for additional tips, coaching and guidance.